A friend and I were talking about how creepy and weird guys can be the other day. I figured how much creepier can these guys actually get.
She then told me about her Plenty of Fish online dating profile and started sending me screen shots of the guys pick up lines and attempts at naked pictures and actual dates (screenshots follow).
If you can write a message that catches her eye, and closes with a creative question, then you’ll have her responding no matter the circumstances.
But first let's look at some of the Do’s and Don’ts of that first message: The key here is to stand out from all the other messages in her inbox.
But for one month, Hinge gave a random 22% of users the option to use a clever prewritten opening line in addition to writing their own messages. They then tracked which of those prewritten lines were most likely to get a reply, using the data to determine which lines worked best based on gender, location, and how fast you sent a message after getting a match.
There are openers for a variety of different situations and types of girls.
“Well, you seem like a potentially fun and interesting girl.
So what’s the trick to getting your first message read and not thrown into the trash bin with the rest?
Here it is: Make her feel like she is better than the other girls online on a deep, intellectual and spiritual level.