When I did he looked me in the eye and said he would never, ever do that to me. And if you don’t tell him, you set him up to lie even further. Because when it comes right down to it, he’s the one who breached the trust of the relationship. Sure, it’s clear he loves you, but that doesn’t mean he’s a great boyfriend, and someone to throw your lot in with. He should be apologizing to you, asking for forgiveness, and agreeing to go to couples’ counseling, or whatever else it takes to restore the trust. Any guy trolling a dating site while he’s in a relationship is cheating, plain and simple. ” To which we’d respond, “But only because the opportunity didn’t present itself.” Kacey, ask yourself if this is the kind of person you want to build a life with? Please leave us a follow up comment and/or question here in the comments section. Her blonde locks were braided into pigtails, and the Over You singer looked mostly make-up free, except for a slick of pale rose lipstick.She shielded her eyes from the sun with some aviator shades, while she tied a denim coat around her waist in case temps got chilly.I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it. I didn’t say anything for a couple of days because I was in shock and wanted to be calm when I discussed it with him. But then he sent me an odd text saying he loves me. Once you tell him how you discovered the information he’ll immediately shut down and feel that you violated the trust of your relationship. However, even though you “accidentally” discovered the information, now that you have it, it trumps any argument he can raise.
Anderson seemed to enjoy himself as well, though he appeared to opt to hold a beer instead of a dog.I was grumpy, easily frustrated, and generally terrible. Most accepted my apology and said not to worry about it.But my sister-in-law said that I was rude to my mother-in-law and that it was terrible.“You should definitely date as many different types as you can to get a good sense of what’s out there and to weed out the kind of people you don’t like,” she says.“At this point, dating is more about you than it is about the other person.