(Click here to take the quiz on “High Value High Status Am I on Facebook? If you have not met anybody who is ‘right’ in a while, and you feel down about it, the likelihood is that you will not ever meet a man and have your ideal happy ending.Instead – what will happen is you will probably ‘settle’ for someone who seems ‘good enough’ because inside you are starving for love and for intimacy and feel willing to settle for any man that seems like he might provide the intimacy and security that you want, even if he is the wrong man for you. I know this because research has shown over and over that most people have the same thoughts they did yesterday, and most people have the same thoughts they had last week, and most people have the same thoughts they had last month, last year…. And this applies to how you think (your mindset) towards your relationships and men as well.
Research and personal success stories suggest that many quality individuals subscribe to these sites and it is very possible to find your life partner in cyberspace. However, online dating can also be a nightmare if you do not chose the right site (or sites) to help you achieve your relationship objectives.
But unlike death and the universe’s size, picking a life partner is fully in your control, so it’s critical to make yourself entirely clear on how big a deal the decision really is and to thoroughly analyze the most important factors in making it. I’m pretty sure no one over 80 reads Wait But Why, so no matter who you are, that’s a of time—and almost the entirety of the rest of your one existence.
(Sure, people get divorced, but you don’t think you will.
certain sites will attract different kinds of potential mates).
Here are some key things you’ll want to consider when selecting a site: Financial: If you want to create the opportunity to meet people face to face in an efficient manner, experts agree it's worth joining a site that charges a monthly membership fee.