Here’s a short guide to dating after your 30th birthday. You’re likely to have a better perspective of dating than you did in your infatuated teen years.In your thirties, you’re cultivating friendships, passions, and a career. Know what you want; not just from a relationship, but from life.Dating in your 30s might not sound like as much fun as it did in your 20s, but it certainly doesn’t have to be a chore.Having survived the immature sagas of youth, you’re ready to hit your stride, relationship-wise.And while cliché dictates that, sure, men are into it, there’s been some recent research done about younger females often gravitate toward mature men.Evolutionary psychologists say that relationships like this often occur because while fertility lasts only from puberty to menopause in women, it starts at puberty and can extend long into midlife for lots of men.I am told that women want to settle down and have kids, etc., but their actions seem to be to the contrary.At singles events, women come in groups and are reluctant to talk to men.
Waiting for everything to "fall into place."It can't. Stop thinking that when you finally get a promotion, Mr.Quite frankly, that applies to being in the relationship iself, too. Maybe it means you have to deal with his neat-freak tendencies, or perhaps you earn more than he does.Anyone who’s been in a serious long-term relationship knows the journey isn’t without certain challenges, and when you’re dating an older man—we’re talking a decade or more—things can get even trickier.One, that younger women are no longer interested in dating men who are even just slightly (3-5 years) older than them and sometimes want to date men 5-10 years younger then them. Alas, the women with whom he wants to get serious are 27-34.Two, women seem to be content in the fact that they are independent and self-sufficient and have a career, family and friends that fulfills them and don’t seem to be interested in truly finding a relationship. This gives men time to court, fall in love, travel together, move in, get engaged, and enjoy a few years of childless marriage before starting a family.