So many of my clients ask me whether dating more than one man at a time is a wise idea.
As their search for love heats up, suddenly there are a multiple men who are interested in them and they don't know how to handle it.
Ever.)But there may be wisdom in these wise, old words.
Ever hear the old adage, "date three to find the one"? The simple premise—date three men at once to increase your chances of finding the man you'll marry—was something my grandmother swore by (funny, considering I doubt she dated anyone besides my grandfather.I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.Rather, my goal was simple: to find a guy I could date more than three times, hoping this would lead to a relationship."My friend suggested I date more than one person at a time for my own good, and I met Adam and I started seeing the pattern happening again, but I forced myself to break it.I started seeing another guy, and even a few other dates here and there with some losers, but the whole time, it really just helped distract me," she says.