Diana Kirschner says dating multiple men is key to finding true love.And the most powerful way to achieve moderation is by using the Dating Program of Three.If you can break these deadly dating patterns, you might have a shot at that love thing after all. Or as soon as you meet a guy, you envision your future dates with him, marrying him, or just having hot sex with him.At work, you bump into cabinets and space out during meetings because you’re so intoxicated by fantasies of this guy. Your attention span is shot and you can only keep your mind off him long enough to read a Tweet. How To Break It: Make a rule for yourself: No Fantasy.Instead you date three men at the same time without having sex with any of them.By not seeing any one man too often, you ﬁnd the men who are really into you and who will stay the course.Love in 90 Days was the basis of her PBS Special on love. Diana through her Dating Tips & Relationship Advice Newsletter.“Diana Kirschner’s work is life-changing, love-affirming and wonderfully effective.” ~Dr.Christiane Northrup, Internationally bestselling author of Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom.
By following this program, you build your self-esteem and ﬁnd men who are much more fulfilling.This is hard because we have no control over where our minds roam.But while you can’t choose not to have that first thought, you decide not to let yourself follow it. Force yourself to finish reading that Tweet, or maybe even that book you were so into before you met him. So if you’re having a serious flirtation with a guy and feel like you’re getting swept away, get back into reality STAT. The Pattern: When you like a guy, you try to orchestrate events that will bring you together, like organizing a happy hour after work or a night out dancing with your classmates. You are trying to push him to ask you out NOW so you don’t have to sit with your anxiety all week.The Program of Three is exactly the opposite of the urban legend “three-date rule,” which dictates that you must decide by the third date if a guy is the potentially the One and have sex or lose him forever.On this dating program, you avoid that pressured decision and its aftermath: a Flame-Out that usually kills the relationship.