I got involved with a man about 5 years ago that has two children ages 10 and 14. I told myself as long as I have my own life I would be able to handle it. There is no room for you with a man with kids,even when he tries his hardest to do his best to keep you first, you never will be.
The truth is, there is no room for you when it comes to dating a man with children. I googled "marrying a man with kids" and found your post.
The message their parents are sending is that it is more important for them to have a life of their choosing than to remain in their prior, primary role of mom or dad.” The result: strained relations, uncomfortable moments for everyone and, for you, the feeling that your children may not have your best interests at heart.A guy really has to prove himself before he becomes a part of my kid's lives, and he has to want it and be in it for the long haul.Im talking at least a year of dateing before he meets my kids.Most people who date a divorced man ALWAYS ignore the basic facts and think that just because you've “fallen in love” everything will be all sunshine and rainbows.The truth is dating a divorced man is not a picnic.