I love conducting Q&A sessions on various topics with men as part of my “he-said/she-said” series; mostly because you get direct and honest access to how men think and feel. Locario, a no-nonsense dating and relationship coach who has been featured on Vh1, FUSE, The Dish Network, TLC, ABC Family, The Tyra Banks Show and Anderson Cooper.
The question I posed to him is a common dilemma in the dating world: When’s the right time to sleep with someone you’re dating?
However, if a woman is dining with a man, you can bet he will pick up the check. I usually trick them by asking to be excused (as if I was going to the lady’s room, grab the waiter and give him my credit card).
But I would never do that to my Dad who would be very upset if I did. When I meet a man and I am without my husband, I’ll place within the first minutes of the conversation that “my husband blablabla… That usually is enough to make my state of mind really clear.
I appreciate how this conversation ended in a when it comes to dating and sex.
Read through to the end to see what conclusions I came to based on this back-and-forth. Locario: I think the right time to have sex with a guy you are dating is at least by the third date.
I am a firm believer in the power of customer feedback when it comes to dating, as well, and I teach my clients that one of the best ways to understand men is to simply talk to them, ask questions, and really listen to what they have to say!
The end goal is to better understand men’s deeper, more latent needs; it is to mold yourself into what you think every man wants you to be.
In the world of entrepreneurship, soliciting customer feedback is a way of gaining understanding and empathy for the customer’s experience.
It’s natural, and that’s one of the aspects that makes you a “complete” man. When was the last time you approached a group of women? As we’ve mentioned before, a lot of guys would rather approach a snoozing lion than approach a woman in the street. This is one factor that puts women off, and perhaps one of the top contributing factors to break up.
But the sad truth is that not all men have an easy way with ladies. As a man, inability to identify some of these easy mistakes with women can lead to a…
Olivier trusts me, and we both trust our friend(s), who would never make a pass at me.
I guess it’s much more accepted in France for men and women to be friends.