Do men actually send us mixed signals when they’re afraid to tell us the truth, or a lie? As a woman, this is extremely hard to digest because I have based all the relationship uncertainties on the fact that guys give mixed signals. If you have to decode a guy’s signals, I think it’s pretty clear it’s time to bail.
What women think is a mixed signal, is in fact a very clear message. What they really feel comes across through their actions. If you see him saying something and not following through with actions, it probably means he’s not interested enough.
Are you getting mixed signals from a guy or girl you like? But that’s only when you feel like you can’t understand what’s happening.We tend to make so many excuses for guys’ situations and why they can’t commit to us even though they like us, but when a guy says he doesn’t want to be with you, for whatever reason, it is crucial that we take it at face value and move on. Be the person he wants to share his life with, because he already has a mother and a maid.For some men, it isn’t the looks or the body that he considers sexy, it’s the confidence with which the girl carries herself that is sexiest.Fear of abandonment, trying to avoid being single or an over-eagerness to compromise are all natural reactions to not knowing where you stand, but they won't improve your situation.Keeping yourself available to be at a guy's every whimsical beck and call is no way to live.