This is a wonderful time of year because of the Men's NCAA Basketball Tournament.My brackets that I filled out are absolutely horrible, but watching all these games has been really exciting.A rebound is a new romantic relationship that begins in the immediate wake of a break up, often before feelings regarding the previous relationship have fully subsided.Rebounds will usually occur around six weeks after the initial break up.But if you’re entertaining the idea so often that you even start thinking of ways to make the dream a reality or actually attempt to, I’m afraid to tell you that you are still firmly in rebound territory, and worse?
Now, I'm not saying a relationship is like prison, but living in a relationship is different than living single.
While women are notorious for rebounding in the forms of binge-partying, one-night stands and over-sharing on social media, men tend to take a different route altogether. After all, you need one foot on the dock before you step out of the canoe, right? So, The thing that men don't understand is while they've spent that time filling the void, we spent that time falling — hard.
We all have our reasons, as well as our own ways to justify our actions. It's just like a wrestling match: half of the team leaves the ring, you tag a new one in.
That strange, occasionally awkward and sometimes delicate balance after a breakup where we have to stop and ask ourselves, “Am I ready to be dating someone again or is this person part of a phase I’m going through while residual emotions from my last relationship are still being sorted out?
” It’s a tricky thing, because there will always be elements of your old relationship stirred up a little by a new one.